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Uk maternity leave

Hi. Just a quick HR question. Work gave me year off maternity leave and then told when time will come closer- we can agree when Im returning. I asked if I can come back in September, as there will be free child care help for nursery. At first they said- ofcourse, no problem, its fine. But then today (after a week) t...

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I need a genuine best friend !!!

Hi I’m Emma I’m 20 with a 2 year old boy and an almost 8 month old boy. (pic below 🩵) I’m always free. I live in Newtown Powys mid wale I don’t drive but I’m doing theory practice and will soon be doing my tests I have super bad anxiety. I just want a best friend I can see meet up with the kids or even a night out…

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I actually hate my partner, I mean I actually can’t stand him, he’s a bully and a narcissist🙈 he constantly bully’s me😩 to the point I don’t want to be in the house, he always brings me down and talks to me like am worth nothing, he constantly calls me names then turns it round on me cause that’s what bully’s do 🙈…

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Smell

Hi ladies Any tips of a fresher smelling hoohaa Right now it’s not smelling the best - kinda like prawns and it’s making me sick I’ve tried to clean it out fully with soap and everything And I always use water to clean after I use the toilet This is just a recent thing And it’s made me very self conscious if m...

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Maternity allowance

I've searched other posts about MA on here and it seems people commonly get a message to confirm receipt of their MA application/documents (after a week or so?) and then later, get a decision about their MA (after about 4 weeks). I set off my app with docs 2 weeks ago and I've heard nothing at all. I don't trust Ro...

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Friends?

Hi. I am looking for a best friend someone who I can talk to about anything.. I have yet to meet my a best friend in the last 7 years.

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Advice

I have this bi girl messaging me. I’ve known her for years. I’m straight but she’s been making me curious. She sent me some nude boob pics and they kind of turned me on. She has big tits. I can’t see myself doing anything like pussy related but I want to rub our nipples together and maybe have them in my mouth. She’...

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Needing input

Confronted my fiancée about explore page having half naked women and asked if he was masturbating at work, he went nuts. Calling me a whore, telling me I am the most insecure person he knows, and stating I do nothing for our family (we have a child together) what would you do? He has narcissistic traits and often ha...

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Weird question

I think I’ve orgasmed before but it’s never like how everyone describes it. I think I stop before I finish? Cause I’ll start to tense and then overthink. What is an orgasm supposed to feel like?

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Gift for Father’s Day of ex partner

What is everyone doing for Father’s Day for your ex / child’s father? I’ve got a card and a bar of chocolate and I’m intending to get my son to do a painting is this acceptable? I don’t want to buy anything that says number one dad as he’s been a shit dad and partner since pregnancy / labour and an atrocious co pare...

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advice please

my boyfriend does have another baby mother! he has other kids! They do have there own coparenting issues that i do try and stay out of because it’s not my place. I am around his other kids quite often but i never communicated with their mother. When they get into arguments she text me on my instagram. I don’t follow...

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I miss my mother soo much

I don't know if it's hormones etc ,I'm 25 +4 days pregnancy and I never felt that lonely in my life . I'm just trying to be postive and enjoy the journey. My mother died when I was 23 and I'm 31 now and I really need her right now ..... does anyone feel sad/guilty that you not enjoying pregnancy/ down?

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What are we doing during the days to entertain ourselves…

First time mum to a 12 week old and it’s so lonely as friends don’t have babies yet. What are people doing to get out of the house other than walks 494838x a day?? Does anyone else feel like this? I dread the days my mum or mother in law aren’t around to come over for just adult conversation and find myself just clo...

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Feeling alone

Just looking for friend in feltham to meet up as I am 24 weeks pregnant and my family is not in this country, i feel so exhausted and alone crying whole day. My husband works 12 hours.🥲🥲

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I need a job.. can anyone help?

My baby will be one on June 1st... I'm honestly bored although my days are very long. I was wondering if anyone knew of any work from home entry level jobs that are real and there aren't waiting lists. Thank you in advance

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Need a pick me up

Went for an interview and didnt get it. Was surprised I didn’t as it seemed to have gone well. Now feeling down. Any suggestions to pick myself up or any encouraging words?

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Given up

Has anyone given up on making friends? I’m 34 with 5 children and married. I have tried so many times in my life to make friends and it never works out they rather talk about talk about me or talk about other people or just grow apart. I been on this app a while now tried talking to people on this and they never re...

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Flirting baby daddy

Why my baby father break up with me right before I got pregnant and he wanted sex my whoooolllllle pregnant, wanted to take me to the zoo, movies, out to eat GIRRRLLL EVERYTHING . Why do he want to do these things and talk about “if we ever rekindle…” 🙄 we been broken up almost a year and no he hasn’t seen anyone…

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Mat leave pay

How long does it typically take to get a pay from the government once you’ve stopped working? About a month? 2? Trying to see how much we need to save so we’re not screwed in terms of mortgage payments/budget etc. I’m in QC so anyone in QC please share your experience if possible.

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This page is so depressing but i kinda love it cause it reminds me that it’s not just me going through it

F our baby daddies

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