Lost sex drive

girl, same 😂 me & my partner have sex like once a month now, it’s painful for me too & just not enjoyable 🥲 we have to keep our communication open, and i think that’s been the best thing for us x

I was the same my whole pregnancy and then the night before the day I was going to be induced I was drowning in hormones and ended up doing it 3 times and then the next morning I woke up and my water broke lol

it’s not enjoyable anymore i completely understand this! my husband tries almost every night but he’s not gentle and doesn’t try to be either…i’ve told him this and he says he’ll be gentle and he never is..it hurts so bad afterwards it’s not even worth it, and i don’t get off to it anyway so i don’t see the need, i just hate that when this baby does come out in a few weeks he’s not gonna get any for a month or longer depending how birth goes…i feel bad but it’s not enjoyable for me only him..im 33 almost 34 weeks

i used to get off everytime before i was pregnant too so he feels like it’s him, but being this big/pregnant doesn’t make you feel sexy either and that’s my main issue, if i don’t feel sexy i won’t get off..

@bailey do you like head? Make him at least give you some nice slow head first to get you heated up. Having someone just jump in head first and fly through doesn’t sound fun at all no. My last pregnancy we barely had sex and even now we don’t a lot but when we do I get mine first because that’s what takes me all the way you know? I’ve never been a orgasm by penetration girly.

@Cassie he gives me head everytime but i still just can’t seem to get off to it, he doesn’t focus on the c**t much at all, i’ve tried to explain this but it’s in one ear and out the other i guess…i just end up using my vibrator when he goes to sleep for cl*t simulation

I can’t remember the last time we had sex. I’m 23 weeks pregnant and I’m sure we’ve had sex like 3 times in that time 😓

@bailey girl, how terrible. Course you’re not getting off if he’s not on the clit. That’s the whole point. He doesn’t take like direction cues if you keep moving him back up? I would die. The whole thing sounds sexually frustrating. Me and my partner both watch porn but never together. I see a lot of couples do tho on these posts. Do you think you could get him to reenact something with you? Or maybe even just idk, be like I want you to do exactly as I tell you and be a good boy lol. Might turn him on. What’s crazy is I’m actually kinda freaky, but I can’t really be freaky with my partner. And he likes really nasty shit with girls he’s just slept with in the past but doesn’t really want me to act that way. I know low key it holds us back from being totally satisfied but we’ve just been years of vanilla. The more I read on here the more it makes me want to push the boundaries. I know the third trimester might not be the best time for us to try it lol, you and I. But we better! 😆

@Cassie i watch porn and he only watches our videos because he says it’s better, i don’t find myself sexually attractive in any way, shape, or form. so that puts me at ease but he always says his favorite thing is to give me head but it’s never gotten me off…i try to hint to stay on the clit but no…idk what to do, i’m very sexually frustrated 24/7 and he’s amazing in bed but idk what to do, it may just be the pregnancy honestly, i hope that’s all it is🤞🏼