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So when I was pregnant I couldn’t have sex much due to pain but always thought about 3somes and wanted one (yes I’ve had one before), now I’m like sex crazed and want it 24/7. Me and my husband are kinky and have talked about a 3some before with another guy, but he only wants it with his friend and I can barely stand that friend let alone have any attraction towards him, and really don’t think I’d enjoy it with him due to me having zero interest in the guy…should I try it anyway to get a 3 some out of my mind or what should I do? His other friends are married and I’m not sure he’d trust a rando
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only do it if you’re really comfortable

@Anjie I just know I’m not at all attracted to this dude and I honestly don’t think I’d get any enjoyment out of it because of that, I’m heavily obsessed with my husband (like probably an insane amount of attraction and what not lol) but idk if that’ll be enough for me to enjoy a 3some with his friend

by the sounds of it i wouldn’t do it personally 😭

Not judging but sounds like a weird spot to put yourself in especially if you already don’t like his friend.

My initial reaction is if you’re not into him and it’s a friend I would say no. It would probably be better if you could find someone that’s not a close friend but someone y’all casually know and definitely make it someone you’re at least a little interested in. As far as this friend goes tho do you think your husband would act funny about you being around him all the time in the future? Would he allow you to maybe talk nasty with him or something through text to see if he could catch your interest first? Maybe if he talked about sucking your pussy or pounding it out you would get excited and want to try.

Curious to know why your husband wants it with that friend specifically 👀 He’s lucky enough to have a wife that’s up for that You should get more of a say in who the other one is

Either way enjoy and let us know about it 🤭

From personal experience 2 men ain’t it! Lmao maybe because there wasn’t any attraction or they couldn’t get on the same page

But maybe because I love women to much testosterone is a turn off🤣

@Jade I’ve had a 3some both ways and I person enjoyed the 2 guys more but maybe it’s cause I was single back then and could choose the ppl. The one with the other girl maybe it’s cause I was drunk and the guy couldn’t keep it up idk but it wasn’t fun for me.

@Cassie idk if he would go as far as us trying that or not but I just physically haven’t been able to gain any attraction to the guy and I’ve tried by just being around the guy.

@Dee it’s the only friend that’s single lol and I think the only one that’s I guess into the kinky stuff we are

@Jade really??? Re 2 men?

Ok thanks for clarifying but I don’t see why they have to be single No one getting married. I thought they just have to be open to Tell hubby to ask another I bet they’d all be up for it

I wish I could be incognito for this chat I sure would say more 🤭 lolll How did you guys do that?

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@Dee yes I was single turned 21 these guys wanted me and was into being a exhibitionist so I was like why not 😅😂they kept arguing on who does what and after a while I was like I’m good

Completely understandable!

Omg I wish that was me 😂😂😂😂

If they were worth it though not the hammering away with no rhythm or care for the recipient I’d like to hand pick two good ex’s 🤭😂

Ms Incognito suggest a new guy I think that would be more of a turn on for your husband

@Dee well I don’t want to just fuck anyone cause idk I don’t trust that many guys lol (too many of em could be hoes 😂😂 I could catch something) but I might try too but idk anyone around here to suggest one with cause I’m not from the area we live in

None of you couple friends want to be swingers for a night?

Definitely sounds like it shouldn’t be the friend I don’t see how it could be fun if there’s not even the slightest bit of attraction and more so with the fact you don’t really care for him at all. Maybe you should find someone you don’t know at all but maybe ask him to get tested first 😩 that would also be my number one concern rather safe than sorry if he’s really down he wouldn’t mind getting tested first

@Cassie good idea! 💡 But I think her Hubby probably has a different type of friendship with this one he has in mind And I guess to a point the guy has to be comfortable with the “guest partner” too.

Incognito I thought not knowing the guest guy is half the fun 🤭

@Dee he only has like 4-5 guy friends and they are all married or in a relationship that’s not like ours, except for 2 and one I can’t trust as far as I could throw him and then there is the one that he’s suggested already…and I thought about making a tinder account or something to find someone to do it with but idk if he’d be ok with that lol

i was slightly in the same position but my man wanted to watch me with another man and the only person he could trust was his bsf but at the time he was like a brother to me so i was like ew no but i did it anyways thinking of the pleasure i could get and not the person

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