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Breastfeeding Problems

Hi!! I am first time mama. I just gave a birth to a beautiful baby boy!! He is sweetest little thing and best thing happened to me. During my birth, I received a epidural (nurses gave me strong and 2x). I had 48 labor and my baby boy was large, 9 Lb & 15 oz & 13 cm inch head, 22 1/2 length inch. ❤️ I absolutel...

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Maternity leave?

Hello! Has anyone ever figured out maximizing the CA maternity leave? I’m trying to read my HR and state benefits but my pregnancy brain is definitely not helping lol 😅 I know we can get short-term disability state benefits (70-90% of our income) for 4 weeks pre-childbirth and 6-8 weeks after childbirth. Then we ge...

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Sex after vaginal delivery

So I’m a little over 5 months pp and I’m still struggling. Like we have sex and I can even orgasm but it has to be very gentle and vanilla(which wasn’t really our style before lol). And even when it goes well it gets to the point where it feels like there are razor blades on his penis! And afterwards it hurts to pee...

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Would anyone join a reality tv group if I made one?

I’m talking Netflix dating, real housewives, etc!

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How would you want your SO to respond?

I’m needing relationship advice/insight! I’ve had a hard day today, juggling baby, emotions, the stress of Christmas events coming up and my boyfriend is working. I express I’m having a hard day and feeling a bit lonely and overwhelmed. He apologized for not being available today, I understand being busy but if the ...

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