ADHD, Autism, & Special Needs Support

Im a single mom from Florida with a profoundly autistic little boy. He is 6, nonverbal, has severe food aversion among other things. But he is also brilliant, funny, sweet, loving and has the biggest blue eyes I've ever seen. I have 100% legal and physical custody. He is my earth-angel and best friend. He has taught me more than I have taught him. Its not a life for the weak, but its surely gratifying. Thanks for having me!

My boys are 8 and 10 both with ADHD and my oldest has other mental health issues as well. He is currently the more "challenging" of the two since he is going through metabolic issues from his meds, as well as huge anger issues that have led to safety crises in the home. I'm keeping my head above water, but barely.

What do you mommas do to help your kid self-regulate/manage/calm down their emotions?

Background: Kiddo has a friend. They're having a spat. Guided kiddo to make a decision of either staying friends or taking a little break from playing with him. He chose taking a break. Very proud he came to that on his own with good reasons.

He told his friend politely. The kid took it kindly and respected my kid's boundaries. He said he will not stop by our house anymore to give him more space. I thought was fair.

My kid -- whirlwind of anger. Came home punching, kicking, screaming, and hitting me. I'm like...but thats what you wanted!!

Looking for other tools or advice or words to use to provide to him to navigate his feelings. Because I got nothing anymore. The tools I know and used -- splat.

Anyone here from or around Fort Worth, Texas? It’s hard making mom friends but I feel like it’s even harder when your child is autistic or has ADHD. It could just be me but I feel judged sometimes 🙃

Has anyone dealt with a partner who was in denial about their child’s diagnosis? Any advice for maneuvering through this?

Ofc I’m going to always do what’s best for my child. Even if it’s ending being single.. with that being said I want to know if denial goes away or if it’s something they have to realize it on their own