Miscarriage Support 👼

I just found out I’m pregnant again. I had a miscarriage in August-October and idk what I should do out how to handle it

Hey, what options has anyone used in the UK for counselling post miscarriage. I had a second-trimester loss, and major blood loss event and think it would be worth me talking it though with a professional. My GP gave me the details for Tommy's and also Miscarriage Association. Tommys suggest using a work EAP. I called them as said they could support but a specialist charity might give me better help. The miscarriage Association links to Petals Charity which ive contacted but im not in the catchment of the list of hospitals they work with. Im South wales based and looking for in person around here or bristol, or if anyone found online worked- interested to know more on that too.

It’s been almost 4 days since I used the medicine to start my miscarriage and every time I get out of bed even for a few minutes I experience painful contractions. It’s like moving is just jump starting it all over again. They are basically as bad as the first day. I don’t know what to do anymore. Is this normal? This is my first miscarriage.

Little about me first. I’m 22 I live in ormskirk and I have 2 cats.

It’s been a little while since my miscarriage. It was the 22nd of October. I was in hospital for a long time and nearly lost my own life because of it. I’m still not okay I still cry i still can’t look at babies I sleep with this little bunny my exs mum got us that says cuddle from heaven on the belly with a scan pic don’t get me wrong I’m not like it all the time I’m happy I laugh I go out I’m normal but there’s moments and I’m dreading mother day it would have been my first one and I know I’m not going to be okay but everyone around me expects me to be they have quite literally told me to get over it. I also have like 0 friends to talk to and that’s not me being dramatic. I also recently got broken up with by the babies dad so I can’t even talk to him. I just need to get it off my chest.

I'm currently in my 2nd miscarriage. My first miscarriage was last July and it was quick (bled 5 days, did a blood test and confirmed). This miscarriage, I thought would happen the same, but yesterday marked 3 weeks of bleeding. Did an ultrasound yesterday and they didn't want to confirm loss of pregnancy as of yet, even though the sack was really low and looks to be leaving the uterus and they confirmed no heartbeat. Then said to come back in 2 weeks for another ultrasound to see if anything changes. If nothing changes or I don't pass it on my own, then I either have to do a D&C or take the pill. Both I never had done before. Has anyone had to deal with D&C or the pill? Which one should I do?