2 under 2 mama support group

Hey

So I just gave birth nearly three weeks ago now and I have a 18M old. Is anyone in or around the same boat? If so how do you structure the day with them both I get so overwhelmed! as my toddler is very active and used to being out and about parks etc. and also night times? I will be solo nighting and thinking how am I going to structure this 😵‍💫

I’m struggling what pram to go for - my little boy will be 15 months old when I have my second baby in June. I have a travel system which is bulky but been amazing and I also found it handy going in out a shop as the car seat clipped on for when he was little and didn’t want to disturb him. But with having 2under2 I need something more practical but also thinking by end of the year he might want to try a buggy board (he’s only taking a few steps at the moment but doesn’t quite like the pram as it is) Could you give me suggestions please - ones that don’t break the bank!! I’ve been thinking the side by side double with the newborn cocoon, or a Joie Tandem double. Just need some advice ☺️☺️

I’ve just found out I’m pregnant but my 14 month old is still breastfeeding and showing no signs of self weaning and feeds to sleep every nap and night time I’m honestly trying to grasp how this is going to work if he still isn’t weaned before baby arrives, also can’t imagine weaning him as he just loves his boobie and the thought of rocking him for 30+ mins to try get him to sleep without feeding with a big bump or a newborn is boggling my brain also😂 do I wean before my bump get big and baby arrives or attempt to tandem feed but im worried about jealousy etc help a stressed hormonal girl out 😂

This is my second pregnancy. Only 9.5 weeks and I already look like I’m 4-5 months pregnant. Nervous it twins. Cause then I’ll have 3 under 2 lol 🤦‍♀️

So my boy is cutting his first tooth, and OMG I have never seen anything like it. My daughter coped so well. I have tried EVERYTHING!!! Literally. He just screams and screams all day long. Won’t be out down which is fine but at the same time I still need to be there for my 2 year old and give her my attention to. He won’t sleep. Nothing helps the pain. He won’t even sleep at night. But will sleep from 5am till 9am with no wake ups, but my daughter wakes up at 6am so that doesn’t help me.

Last night he had me up from 10pm till 1.30pm every 30/40mins, ended up on the sofa. Then finally in his cot but awake every hour.

He is more miserable than normal and today has cried for 4 hours straight. I’m at my wits end and have no idea how to help him.

We’ve tried, teething powder, gel, calpol, nurofen, frozen absolutely everything, teething toys. You name it. If you have a hidden secret please tell me as I just want this to be over 😭😭😭