2 under 2 mama support group

I’m not sure what to get my LO for Christmas. He will be 4 months old and I just have no idea but feel guilty because for my daughter’s first Christmas I had loads of ideas but I feel like we have everything from my daughter.

I literally just took a pregnancy test and it immediately showed positive and I’m so nervous to have 2 under 2 and with them potentially being 14 to 15 months apart. I don’t know how to feel about any of it.

Did anyone else notice their toddler become much closer to you before giving birth? My daughter has turned from a wild hooligan to just loving and calm. Im very thankful as im 38+5 but she just wants to be sat next to me watching telly with me hold her

Really struggling with snapping at my toddler atm. Constant stream of tantrums and whining and I know it’s a plea for attention / lack of ability to regulate but with him constantly that or not ever listening, then my 7month old glued to me I’m so overstimulated, feel like a terrible mum and keep snapping at my eldest and shouting / screaming back. Help am I the only one? Does it get better? Feel like such a shit mum. Any tips to help me not loose it??

Did your second baby come earlier than your first? Also is it true that that if theres a smaller age gap your body remembers birth more so which makes it even faster