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I’m currently pregnant with my 3rd on third trimester, I have 2 toddlers I’m taking care of while that’s happening. I’m going through so much back pain, leg pain, pelvic pain, breastfeeding aversion, Cramps and heartburn. So basically everything. And my toddlers stay up till 4 am. This is literally almost everyday and they never sleep before the AM. I blame their dad for not helping me since his bedtime is more important than theirs since he works. BS (: I just learned to turn the lights off and put calm instrumentals on. Because I get overwhelmed and I don’t find this normal at all. It’s like a nightmare to me. Because my body pain starts in the AM. I sometimes feel like I should have never rushed my life … this is so difficult. Especially with me not trusting anybody with my kids either.

My baby just turned 4 months old, and I’ve been dealing with a lot of wrist pain. I’ve tried almost everything I’ve found online, but nothing seems to be helping. The pain is especially bad in the mornings, and sometimes it’s difficult for me to even hold my baby because of it. I’m not sure what else to do and would really appreciate any advice.

She is fine in the morning she is smiling but by 3 pm she is crying and screaming and she does take her naps but always at 3pm she screams and cries the rest of the night until morning

What happens if you've tried healthy marriage conflict tactics but partner gets defensive, raises voice, turns around your valued point or mocks your points. These are matters that need to be talked about, like discussing what over due bills are redeemed important to pay this paycheck. Over due conflicts that are recurring. I have been calm and collect when bringing up what needs to be brought to attention around the house to help while im going through nausea in first trimester. Having a 4 year old to attend to. I do his work clothes for him and our washers spin is broken so it adds extra work. I care for him, but when i ask for help with task i normally do i get hesitation fron him. For contexts he's 28. I've talked ( after several attempts) with him on how I feel lonely and not cared for in first trimester. HIS TONE and demeanor towards me and our 4 year old. His frequent trips to garage for hours to smoke a cigarette ( just picked it back up after 5 years) straight after waking up, leaving me to deal with lunchtime while throwing up. Also after putting our son to bed and I ask for simple affection like tickles while watching tv in bed, hes gone and distant. I've had countless calm conversations about what makes me feel im undervalued. Nothing changed after months, and honestly I've grown bitter. He stresses the way he deals with it isnt ideally productive. Rather buring in and not dealing with head on. Like as mother's we do. Am I over reacting? Am I being unrealistic? Am I being controlling when I ask to minimize his hours long smoke trips to garage and help out more? Not trying to bad talk my husband, its a rant.

Is anyone else's kid having a hard time riding a bus every morning because my child is having the most hardest time every morning to get on the bus he be prepared to get on the bus but he freaks out as soon as he sees the bus or gets on it I don't know what else to do I tried to headphones the headphones did not work I tried the teddy bear the teddy bear didn't work so it's like more of a anxiety thing for him I guess any advice on that