Vent About Your Husband/Boyfriend Issues

Im so tired of everything. Ive tired of my fiancé. Im tried of waiting around for him to change. He treats me as if im bothering him with my every action. If I ask him to change a 1 diaper he answered with goans and rolling his eyes. He acts like because he works he should get a break when he gets home and he should be able to enjoy some time on the Xbox with his friends while I am still taking care of put 1 year old son. 1 night I got up and was crying from how tired I was because our son has never slept an entire night by himself. I have to constantly wake up to latch him on and feed him and stay up longer just waiting for him to fall back to sleep while my fiancé is snoorring right in our ears. I was crying so much and he woke up, asking me what's wrong and I responded with "im just so tired, im constantly having to wake up because our son is and im just so tired". He responds with "well so am i, im tired too". Implying that because he works him being tired is more important and that me being tired means less. He complains about him not being able to hang out with his friends as much. He complains if I ask for him to bath our son or to try to put him asleep. Im so tired of being a single parent in a relationship with him. Im tired of him.

I’m at a loss of what to do anymore to keep my marriage going. I’ve been married since September of 2025 and since our wedding things haven’t been the best…we’ve had bad fights where he has threatened to kill himself (not long after the second time he did it he was sent to a facility because of how he answered a question on a questionnaire thing his therapist gave him). He blames me for supposedly being the one to start the fights and being too emotional during them. We were doing good for a while until recently while looking for a place off base for us to live together (he’s in the military) I brought up having to find a place that will accept pets as I have a dog who will go into depression if I leave him behind at my moms. He doesn’t like dogs but knew I had some before we ever even got together. He’s telling me now that the dog will be my responsibility and only mine which is fine but with being close to my due date I told him I would need help after until I get healed up and he refuses. He’s also expecting me to make sacrifices for him (my dogs, my job) but yet I’ve never asked him to make any sacrifices for me nor would I ever not that he would anyway even if I did. I just don’t know what to do and I’ve honestly thought about divorce multiple times but feel like I’m stuck because I don’t want our son to be born into a broken home like I was. Any advice?

I think I’ve come to the conclusion that I don’t like relationships. I think men just take everything from you. I’ve had a baby and had to co parent, that was hard but I handled it. Built a business up and tbh everything was going well. Then I met my now partner. I used to fantasise that having someone to do this life with would be so much better. I’m realising i actually don’t like it. I’m probably being ungrateful cause a lot of people have it worse but this is not enjoyable. I loved the distance I had with men. Keeping them at arm length. They actually get on my last nerve. They just take everything from you once they enter your life and I’m done with it. I have my kids, my business, home and family. Now I need to figure out telling him I never want to get married. It’s not worth it

I've been over hearing my partner talking to himself, having full on conversations, I've seen it myself when I've come downstairs. I thought he was in a work call but wasn't. Then we have a cot cam and the motion kept going off so I listened in and I thought someone was with him or on the phone but he wasn't. It's happening alot more and I don't know what to do. We all sometimes think out loud but these are proper full on conversations. I went out the other day and left a cup on the side and I could hear him having a conversation about how it's a house full of children meaning me. I'm abit concerned tbh

I co sleep with my son and every night I get woken up every hour/hour and a half. He wake up crying and looking to feed to sleep. My nipples are red and in pain and im just so tired. Last night I got woken up again at 3:49 and I was complaining about how tired I was and how I if my fiance could please help me. I know its hard for him to put him back to sleep but I just felt so drained and tired that I was just asking for help and some compassion. Instead when I had complained that I dont get sleep he immediately interrupts with "well I dont get sleep either". It feels like anything i complained about something like how Im on the corner of the bed; he has to add " well so am i". I felt unheard and hurt by this and when I brought it up he said something along the lines that he had already apologized, what else did I want? When he had apologized about it he said it in the most scarcastic tone and It made me more upset. This is how its been since I had my son and its been making me reevaluate my relationship with my fiance. I know im an overthinker so its hard to tell when im overtaking a situation and thinking the worse or if thats really as I think.

Either way it was nice to talk about it, thank you.