So Iβve seen plenty of women on here having their 2nd (and 3rd!!) babies since our June 2023 babies arrived and even though Iβve always wanted more than one, I wasnβt too bothered for awhile as I found it quite challenging at times. But now that my LG is nearly 3, even though she is still HARD at times, I canβt imagine not having another. BUT I know my partner is VERY, VERY apprehensive. Like Iβm pretty sure 95% he doesnβt want another. But itβs not because he doesnβt think we could look after one etc etc, itβs more about his mental health and how heβd cope. I guess Iβm just wanting advice from women who were in the same position but decided as a couple to have another and what helped the partners come round?