Is it Sus?
So i was looking at some of the post and I noticed a girl that i messaged posted saying that she is struggling to make friends and am sorry I found it idk werid or rude, because I messaged her,but she ghost me. I wanted to message her and i guess i wanted to ask if you still want to be friends message me back. I know is hard to make friends here,but she has not written back at all. We only messaged I think 2-3, and i wrote the last message. Maybe am hurt by this,but at the same time is like do ur part too. I get we get busy,but i do write back when someone shows interest in being a friend. Am sorry if i sound rude,but i found this rude too
The pill and periods
Hi, I wondered if there’s anybody here who has experienced something similar or could tell me if this is normal?
So I came off my pill a month ago to begin trying for a second baby. Obviously I’ve come off of my pill a few times in the past, one of these times being to try for first baby, but have never experienced what I have right now.
This month’s period, first one since stopping pill, has come almost when I would have expected it but it’s basically a bit of spotting, not enough to fill even a pad, let alone a tampon, I’ve just been using panty liners. It’s also only lasted 2-3 days max.
It’s definitely not normal for me, as previously I’ve had a generally medium/heavy period straight away as I usually would with or without the pill.
I understand it can take a few months to get your cycles back in check after stopping the pill, but as I said I’ve never experienced this next-to-nothing spotting before.
My former best friend ditched me and im trying to understand why.
Im really just ranting here. Please be gentle with me. My best friend of 25 years , we were single , messy and childfree together and then she got pregnant at 18, got married and I was still a single loser and her forever sidekick. I was always always there helping her take care of her baby girl. And when her terrible no good husband cheated and left I was of course always there. Years later she got remarried to an amazing kind man and had another beautiful baby! I was still there babysitting so they could have date nights! I also got married to a long time friend and me and my husband baby sat for her all the time! We tried to get pregnant for years and years and even while we were trying ivf , we still baby sat at least once a month. Finally I had my first baby and I felt a complete shift from my friend. She never offered to throw a baby shower or anything like this first of all even though I threw TWO BABY SHOWERS, BACHELORETTES etc etc. Her and husband came to see us weeks after the baby was born and then there was a real real distance. I felt really weird like where are you.. I need you the most now. I dont know wtf im doing. I have much younger sister and brother so my mom is busy with them! Then when I had my second baby.. it was almost radio silence. She brought over a gift and that was it. She told us theyre planning to move to Colorado from where we live in Toronto for husbands work. Which is great im super happy for them but I just thought it was very weird about not being happy for me about my babies especially knowing I struggled with fertility etc. So she moved. And now she keeps flying back to Toronto all the time to see another friend of hers, who used to be just an acquaintance, this friend is single party girl, no husband or kids. Never calls or msgs me anymore. Is she upset that I had kids? I was still willing to babysit. I just needed to like figure out my own baby for a bit?? Like?? Wtf is the deal
✨ looking for my soul-bestie ✨
okay so boom… i’m not just looking for a “friend” — i want a real connection. like my person. my friend soulmate 🥹💫
someone i can:
talk to about life, healing, and growth
laugh w. until we can’t breathe 😂
have deep, spiritual convos at 2am
do cute lil outings, self-care days, and random adventures 💅🏽🌸
actually show up for each other… consistently
i’m big on energy, loyalty, and genuine vibes. i love anything spiritual, peaceful, a lil magical… and i’m really just trying to align with someone on that same frequency
no weird energy, no competition, no fake love. just real, soft, safe friendship 🤍
if you feel like this resonates… maybe we supposed to find each other 🫶🏻
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