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If we are banning all LGBT conversations , books and materials from anyone under 18 to prevent them from being brainwashed.... Should we then have lgbtq libraries that are for people that are 18 plus... hold classes and house every single banned book on LGBT people, fictional or otherwise .... And teach about hete...

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Sex pp

I’m 3 ish weeks Pp (first baby) and i am so horny honestly. My boyfriend has been so loving and amazing and he hasn’t brought to having sex once since he’s aware we have to wait at least 6 weeks but every night once we get our baby down for his first long stretch of sleep of the night i just want to jump this man’s ...

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When to tell hubby I'm leaving

I'm leaving my SO (baby's daddy) and wondering when to tell him I'm leaving him. He works Monday to Friday, I'm a SAHM, his mom lives here too, and my parents said until I tell him I'm leaving I can't work on other things required for moving out. When do you think is a good time to tell him I'm leaving? I really don...

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Don’t know what to do

Iv been with my partner for 5 years now and I really thought the world of him for years but the past couple years have been just a awful rollercoster, before I got pregnant we had split up for a bit and already had trust issues. He’s had issues watching/looking at p*rn and half naked women on his phone. He had sworn...

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Physically ill at the thought of mat leave ending

I finish mat leave in 2 weeks, baby has taster session in nursery tomorrow. I'm devastated. I'm worried baby won't settle (he's super super clingy with me compared to babies at baby group) and I'm just scared because I honestly can't even remember how to do my job. I feel a physical pain in my chest at the thought o...

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Sex

Anyone else's partner moody if you don't have sex with them? Mine does :( he gets moody and will give me the silent treatment or will just be generally off with me I'm on the pill and have 0 sex drive ATM which obviously isn't helping Plus we have had issues in our relationship which has put a damper on it I g...

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Have you ever gotten a guideline report thing on here??? How do I find out what for?

When I opened the app today it said something about not following guidelines or something and made me agree to them again. I didn’t do anything even remotely against the rules. Can I find out why this happened?

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Friends..

Has anyone else’s friends not really bothered with them? They were all happy and excited for me when I told them I was pregnant and now make absolutely no effort with me. Not a nice feeling at all :( so doesn’t feel like the happiness was genuine

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Let's be friends + talk all day at work 😂

Hi everyone, **Can't see waves** Looking for friends. This feels like a dating ad. But I'm looking for friends! I'm in MD, but I don't mind a pen pal. have 2 littles. Full time working, remote sometimes (for brunch obviously). I like getting out of the house and exploring. Watching cheesy Christmas movies, and baki...

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Looking for a bestie

I’m 21 married with 2 boys looking for meetups and play dates for the kids and also have an little mommy time or even if your far we can FaceTime or text 👐🏻

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Looking for momma friends

Stay at home mama here looking for fellow friends my baby will be 8 months on the 22nd I'm based in California

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Any 420 mamas in Portland, OR???

Honestly trying to find more friends, this mom stuff has been lowkey stressful, and I wanna be able to talk to someone that understands this stuff first hand🤦🏽‍♀️

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Westfield Meetup?

Would any mamas and expectant mamas be interested in a meetup soon? Thinking we can go to Rivet on Jersey or somewhere central. Created a poll to nail dates.

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420 Friends 🍃✌️

Any open minded 420 moms want to hang out in Bono 🍃✌️

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Do I have any options

I’m currently living with my baby’s dad, it’s just the most unhappy situation. He really really hates me. He’s always annoyed at me, always telling me I’m mentally ill, that my job is the cause of all our problems because I only work at the perfume shop, but I did when he first met me so i dont get why he only now t...

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Urgent advice pls

I live in the uk and me and baby daddy we don’t have a healthy relationship anymore, he been so emotionally abusing me and no respecting me or my mum that came over when I gave birth 3 months ago to help me out I am from Spain and I want to go back to my family and settle down there as in the uk I have no one a par...

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