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Friends?!?

So I've been on this app for a hot minute. I've talked to alot. Connected with even fewer. I am a full on mom. I have makeup..but do it sparingly. I let my hair do it's own thing most of the time. Putting pants on that don't stretch is a chore I don't need in my life. Fashion is ok but I choose comfort. I choose coffee and herbal teas over most alcohol these days. I do love a good glass of red wine thought. Hehe. I love dark humor. I laugh when I'm not supposed too. I am awkward and think my jokes are funny when they are not. I also have anxiety that I contestantly fight. I cuss like a sailor and I'm NOT an esthetic mom or perfect. I make mistakes daily. I also read alot including, but not limited to, dark romance and I have long before booktok became a thing. If I sound like your cup of tea with most of my flaws out on the open, message me. Peace love and health to yall.

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Family

Hi everyone,

My name is Jessica, I am 28 years old married to my hard working blue collar man and a SAHM to a little boy named Jansen and a dog mama to a long haired dachshund named Allie!

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how do you make friends x

LMAO like i’m ngl i’ve never had any friends .. idek how to make a friend
how do i know if i’ll even like them
how do iknow if they’re fake or loyal or trustworthy
how do iknow if we share the same interests
it’s kind of like dating where u kind of see if that person fits and if they don’t you start again
how nice would it be to have that one friend especially made on here that you can talk to about anything and open up to i wish i had friends sometimes to talk to outside of family to do things with but it’s hard to make friends
or is it just me overthinking i do tend to do that..
i’d love to know what you guys think lol

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Friends ??

I’m 20 so maybe 19-24? Sahm to a babyboy 3m ! Just looking for a mom frienddd if interested leave a comment or text me

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Need advice

Me and my partner have been together for quite some time. But throughout my pregnancy He really started, just letting me down. Not being the partner I needed and not really being supportive. So during that process I've kind of just like started losing feelings and having resentment towards him. Rcently, he started work again. Which means I only see him once a week. And sometimes not even that, so it's just me and the baby.
So, any advice on how to like bring the spark back in our relationship, or if it's even worth fighting for? I love him and I want this to work, but I just don't know what to do.

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AITA

We have 3 kids under 5 including a 4 month old.

We have had discussions about increasing intimacy which i have been really trying. I have gone through quite bad ppd and plays and I also have severe endometriosis and had had issues with contraception so I was bleeding for abiht 12 weeks pp.

I have been giving it my all. On friday he got a bj without asking and because he was sick, I ran around him, feeding him making him honey lemon teas etc.

Saturday was crazy, our son was acting up and it was.overall a really strwasful day coupled by the face that our 2 year old vomited twice on friday night so we had very little sleep and I was up with the baby as well. He asked for sex and I said that I didnt feel up to it and now (sunday) I am being punished big time. Attitude, being told to go away, that he's done with me, that I'm never there for him.

So am I in the wrong? I agreed to work in intimacy but now I feel like I can't say no or I'm going to get punished even though je got some the day before???



Edit- Its just getting worse, hes now saying that we are over because i said no and apparently that was me stopping trying and 'he really needed me' I tried to explain that I was on limited sleep from the night before and our son had been really hard all day (possible serious adhd) and I was exhausted. Hes now saying hes going to go have sex with someone else and take a picture to rub in my face

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Friends?

Friends ? I’m 20 Sahm to 3m babyboy . I love nature , listening to music journaling type of girl I’m pretty chill lol if interested text me I want a mom friend but also just a friend to be girls with talk about whatever and anything with ! Like a bestie lol personal bestie

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Anyone looking for just friendship?

Is anyone looking to make non-flirty friends? I’m happily married and hoping to find a friend with a similar 2 mom family dynamic, but not looking for anything other than friendship at all. We live near Huntsville but open to texting friends anywhere. No shade to the people looking for dates, it’s just not what I’m looking for.

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Friends

Does anyone want to actually be friends and not just text for a few days and stop texting ??

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Different stages of life in friendship group

My close friendship group consists of 4 girls we've been friends since secondary/primary school. I've got a newborn and another of us is due in July. In our group chat etc of course we talk about pregnancy and babies a lot. 2 of the other girls are struggling with their mental health (same) and one in particular is having a hard time after a break up and dealing with being single in her mid 30s. The other 2 childless friends have made some shitty comments and there have been some negative vibes to the point where I feel like I can't talk about anything baby related or I'll annoy them. Comments like "oh are you pregnant, I didn't know' and when one of them missed the other girls pregnancy announcement in person 'I'm glad I wasn't there i wouldn't have been able to fake being happy today'
I wondered if anyone else experienced things like this. I don't want to lose them as friends but I also have to talk about my daily reality which obviously involves a baby!!!

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Chats

Is anyone up and want to chat? Up relaxing with a drink and the baby is asleep.

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Saline/Ann Arbor/Ypsi (Michigan) areas

Hey!! Looking to make some mom friends to hangout with, play dates, and share mom tips with kids similar ages. Expecting in July/August. Message me, would love to chat!

Would also love more couple friends to go on double dates with or without the babies.

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Mid Wales mums - fancy meeting up?

Anyone here from Mid Wales? I'm in Aberystwyth area and I'm so bloody lonely! I need someone who fancy going out for some walks or coffee (especially with weather getting better) - tricky in our area to find people to connect as its so rural. I've got 2 month old - and will start talking to myself soon! Anyone interested? ☺️☺️

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How does AI impact the environment

I have resisted signing up to AI specific apps until now. I find I need it for work, plus it's quite helpful for my hobbies.

How much of my daily use will really have a negative impact? My thoughts are, this is the way the world is headed and I need to keep myself and my kids upto speed. Which means it may be up to the entire system to catch up with demand. What do you think about it?

I mean there is a whole robot designed to assist with housework so you can enjoy life, aren't we all just going to get it soon as we can?

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Looking for friends in Indianapolis

Any moms with newborns or children that are 4 years old want to be friends? 😭 I’m so lonely😭

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Sexually active

Is anyone still sexually active? I’m petrified of climaxing incase it gives me cramps and then I spiral so I’ve pretty much avoided it the whole way through. If I knew I was going to be ok I probably would but I know I’ll over think it all. But interested to know how everyone else is feeling!

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