Mum rage or useless partner

Feeling like I'm about to lose my shit if my partner doesn't step up and help more my daughter's almost 9 months and 11 weeks with second I'm so tired I'm doing everything for our baby girl for the house and our dogs. he thinks cause he now working 13 hr days he shouldn't have to do anything I'm over cleaning up after him and the dogs it's a never ending and if I leave it it's all still there for me to do the next day can't keep doing this and I never get a break unless you class when he took one day off when I had surgery in October he was hands on for a start but now he won't even sit in lounge with us will go talk to his mates on pH ask him to do anything and how dare I he's tired or feeling sick yet when I am I still try do everything fml