Preparing for divorce

I can't believe I'm saying this but after tonight's fight, I think I need to prepare myself for a divorce. We have 2 school age boys, just moved into a house 2 months ago. He won't leave and I refuse to as well. Any tips on what I need to do right now? He blindsided me with his desire to be with someone else. I've been dealing with this for months and it's literally making me sick.

Show your support

Is the house under your name? Get him out that way if he is, explain that you cannot be with him for you sanity. Talk about co parenting, And try not to involve the kiddos with the fighting or let them see too much

Both our names. He yelled and broke a table because I have been trying so hard to fix us and he's done and tired of me trying . My 11 yr old heard it. He's noticed me depressed, as hard as I've been trying to hide it. He already warned me that there's no house if he's not here. He wanted to coparent while living together and he brings in the girl he's been talking to.

Probably have to find a lawyer, pull some cash back from your grocery shopping trips as to not alarm him and get a lawyers advice. It all depends on what state you live in what laws they have. Some states no fault state others might give you an advantage if he has said he wants to be with someone else. Write down a log of all the toxic destructive abusive things he has done this will help you keep full custody of the kids.