That would make any female feel some type of way! What’s the deal with you wearing underwear or not? And the shaving part I mean that’s your preference if you want to go completely bald or just have some hair or completely hairy! Maybe ask him what about you having hair down there is not attractive to him! If he’s saying your vagina smells and I’m no way shape or form bein mean…but it prob does an that’s something you should look into with a gynecologist unless your just not properly washing correctly down there not sure how often you shower but if you are washing correctly and there’s still a odor after a shower u absolutely need to make an appt!
That’s very offensive. Keep in mind that this is your husband but I’m hoping the way he came about this was with caution. I totally understand this feeling. I think you should try to grant his wishes but also ask him where all of this change is steering from—Shaving and wearing underwear.