Is it just me?

Is anyone else horrific to their partners? I’ve been going though perimenopause , I’d say for a year, but with mostly regular periods and not really any mood swings. My period is now 29 days late (def not pregnant) and I just started spotting this morning. My mood swings are unbelievable!! I’m angry, teary, depressed, and I feel so bloody guilty for speaking to my husband so badly. I called him a bill last night knowing how much he detests bullies. I just would like to know if anyone else feels guilt for going through this?