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Is it just me?

Is anyone else horrific to their partners? I’ve been going though perimenopause , I’d say for a year, but with mostly regular periods and not really any mood swings. My period is now 29 days late (def not pregnant) and I just started spotting this morning.
My mood swings are unbelievable!! I’m angry, teary, depressed, and I feel so bloody guilty for speaking to my husband so badly. I called him a bill last night knowing how much he detests bullies.
I just would like to know if anyone else feels guilt for going through this?

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Yes. How my husband hasn’t left me yet is beyond me. I’m so moody & snappy, & teary & have no patience, & I hate it, but it’s like I have no control over it. And yes I feel very guilty. I always apologise to my husband after I’ve calmed down, but I still feel bad.

I am so with U, ur not alone I am so annoyed with so much and irrational and then bk to ok then I feel bad I don't think we have to much control I dunno if there's something we should be doing but I feel extremely like this

Yes omg I have felt this type of frustration quite alot lately honestly love its nothing to be ashamed of things happen when your going though personal hormones and thats okay to feel depressed and angry there is nothing wrong with that at all hun xx

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I’m going through post partum anxiety and my partner hasn’t been great at all. I have been crying to him about supporting me more and he said “I can’t deal with this I better end things with you now as you’ll be even worse when you hit menopause” he said this in a serious tone. I’m 27 and I asked him why would he say that and he said he has to think of his future too

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