Side guy.

I am so upset because I want something more with my side guy but he has a main one. Please dont judge me. But ive known him for 7 years. He is not with his main one because they broke up because her friend found him showing off his you know what on twitter but i know he is trying to pursue her. She is young, no kids, and has 2 business. Anyways we are not just fwb we talk all through text we talk all the time im so upset because i really love this guy the sex is the best in the entire universe but it sucks he is trying to pursue this other girl…. Why cant i ever have things my way it sucks and angers me… sometimes i want to call his girl and let her know that he is not loyal but then i know my friendship with him will forever end…. Once she knows about me unless she leaves him. So im kinda leaving it up to the universe for her to find out he is unfaithful. Unless i call her and tell her lets set him up? So it seems like an accident but i am not sure if she would be down for that. Any thoughts. Again pleae dont judge i know i shouldn’t have a side guy in the first place. I have my reasons.

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all i’m going to say is how you get a man is how you can lose a man so if he’s unfaithful to her with you he can most definitely be unfaithful to you with someone else. i’m sure you can find someone that’s all about you and only you. you’ve known him for 7 years but you remain his side piece because of what you allow. he probably has no intentions on making you his main because he has all the benefits without needing to do so

@Dvyne yes I know what you are saying but we met when i was an escort at the time and he was my client… already it started off crazy. He is the only man i ever met that has made me….. do something i dont think i can say on here. That i didnt even know i can do

No judgement but find a man that's all for you and not already in a relationship, it's messy and it's bound to happen to you , if y'all ever do get together. But if it was really serious he would have been with you but it just seems sexual . Us as women must Do Better

In all honesty, I wouldn’t worry about that other girl he’s pursuing. Even if she drops him or something, he’ll find another one to pursue and who will be his priority while he’ll keep you as a side. That’s what it seems to me.

No judgment from me - just my opinion - he’s not gonna take it to the next level when he’s been getting what he wants for years without doing that. Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?

@Destiny i get it. I know and quite frankly i think i just need to accept that. Not because of my self worth but because him and i have an understanding and i have been with so many other guys and he is the only one that the sex is a 20 out of 10…. Besides that we talk all the time. I get why he is with this girl. Not that i am settling but back to my question. Should i tell her what he is doing?

I will tell her 😅

@Lorena yoi would? But if i tell he will lose my trust and i will never get to ne with gim again

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