Need advise!
Hey I need advise I've been seeing a guy for 5 months, things was going great in the beginning but he has a 8 year old son he is a lovely boy, but he goes around to his baby mums everynight after work from 6 till 10 at night, he says his boy won't go to sleep without him.. I recently fell pregnant and due to our situation I choose to terminate I'm overwhelmed with emotions and grief of the loss he has turned cold towards me.. and now after 7 he won't answer messages or calls till the next day.. his phone is heavily passcoded like he has a code for every app.. I'm confused on what to do about this situation I feel really alone.. and unsupported, when I say these things he says he has alot going on in his life.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm not trying to defend his actions but is there a possibility he is also hurt by the termination? Men process emotions differently then women so it's worth a conversation. Sorry I don't have anything better to say.
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I don't think it's wrong at all to feel confused when he isn't acting how he should be in a relationship, but don't ever feel bad about making the best decision for yourself and your future