I’m kinda embarrassed please don’t judge 🙈
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I didn’t graze or tear, wasn’t hurting or feeling weird in any way and had sex once I stopped bleeding at 3.5 weeks. I used to think people were crazy having sec they early but I generally felt fine x
If you feel ready then go for it! With my first I had sex the first time about 4 weeks PP. Take your time, plenty of foreplay and have plenty of lube on standby if you need it. I’m currently 2 weeks PP and ready to jump my husband but I’m still bleeding 🙈 my sex drive seems to go through the roof after having children, I think it’s because I know I can’t I want it more 😂
It’s more the healing of your insides that needs the time (the placenta leaves a huuuuge wound), not whether you tore etc. The advice is 6 weeks but I know a lot of people don’t wait that long 🤷♀️
I’m 4 weeks pp and wanting sex but had 2nd degree tear with stitches. Scared to stretch the area where the stitches were. I do feel comfortable down there but what if stretching it makes it sore again. My bf is on the big side so think that’s why I’m nervous.
My own question is how you guys just had a graze or no tear! Wow .. I’m one month PP exactly today and just fully healed from my 2nd degree tear some days ago with no sex drive whatsoever.
@Stephanie perineum massage and this time I listened to the midwife on when to push and when to stop. They ask you to for a reason 😂
@Megan I didn’t do this and I have 2 baby’s never tore ☺️
I had no tear or graze but i was still afraid to have sex 😂 let us know how it goes
@Lara thank you for keeping it so real I needed this. I will wait ❤️
I had the exact same and we had sex at 3/4weeks Pp. I’m 6 weeks now and it wasn’t uncomfortable or anything. We used a condom We’ve only managed it twice though as one of the times we tried and the baby started crying 🤣🤣
@Lara gosh no. I needed it honestly. ❤️. Thank you again x
I want to know this too 😂 I had a graze but it’s healed now, 4 weeks postpartum, I’ll follow your post 😂 xx