How do i know its over?

Ladies, I need your honest opinion on this. My husband and I used to fight like crazy in the beginning. Recently we have calmed down, and we got into a fight again. For some reason I have a feeling like I can’t do it anymore. I feel like Ive lost hope in our relationship. This one fight was enough for me, I feel very tired. We have a 15 month old, and sometimes I feel like she’s the reason why we’re together. This is wrong, I know. But what can I do in this situation. Also, he hasn’t complimented me in a while. Our sex is terrible. It’s like he doesn’t notice me sometimes. I’ve tried so hard to save this family, but I am so so very tired. I can’t stop crying on my pillow.
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I think you know it's over, or at least ending, when you have to ask. Just know that a happy mom and dad is more important than a married mom and dad.

When there are more sad days crying than happy ones smiling. For a good amount of time, I’d say that’s a sign. If the pain of staying becomes greater than the pain of leaving, that’s another sign. But because there is a child involved, I’d suggest trying to make it work before calling it quits. I mean having regular appts with a couples counsellor. And you both putting in the work to make eachother happy.

Thank you for the advice 🙏🏼💜

You know it's over when you're asking for validation on your gut feeling that it's over

@Zipporah i wish I could do that. Every time i try to talk it out he gets annoyed & aggressive. He starts yelling even more and saying that he doesn’t want to talk. We had many many big fights, not just one.. I feel very stuck because he’s a good person. But im questioning myself if he’s a good husband or not.

@Zipporah we definitely do deserve a vacation… unfortunately we both don’t have any family that could watch our LO. We haven’t been on a date for a year. You are right!!

@Zipporah your advice is great. I will recommend that to him today. Thank you❤️

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