That’s what I was thinking , leave my name & number on all invites so if parents have any worries ; I don’t want to leave kids out and I also don’t want my daughter getting all excited & no one comes x
I no it scary planning party but if any parents are going they will send u message to confirm x
We asked nursery for a list of her friends (most of them she’d given me), wrote invites with my contact details on them and nursery gave them all out
I would ask teacher for kids names and invite them all. Leave ur number on invites and you will get to no the other parents that way. I did this for my ASD son when his bday comes round x