This may seem small to most but it really gets to me
I don’t like when people hold my son when they’ve just come in from smoking.
It’s happened on more than one occasion and I just sound like a broken record.
Today for example.. my dad was smoking in the garden I was upstairs getting dressed, then I heard him with my son so I came downstairs, there he was holding my child whilst my mum goes out to smoke.. they both know how I feel about it but nothing changes 😭
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Definitely not a small thing, I’m very sensitive to smoke and the smell of it, so I wouldn’t want it around my baby either.
The thing about boundaries is they have to have a consequence. If they aren’t gonna follow your rules, don’t allow them to hold the baby.