@Tanisha you know what it is, I’ve given my mum hell since I had my first and she gets it now. And I don’t want her to see it all and just think why is the MIL allowed to do whatever? I feel like if I don’t stand my ground on this one now then the MIL will never get the hint and my partner needs to recognise his in a relationship with me and not his mum. So I feel it’s a fight worth having 🙃🤌🏼 I’m very strong on my boundaries and I think this has over stepped totally! She could of had the decency to ask ‘is it ok if I tell people’ instead of assuming our plans 😔
Tell MIL outright that unless the person has an invite they are not invited
@Gabriella oh I 100% agree with you it's an over step. I had a very similar situation, MIL didn't know the difference between my business and hers. It caused so many fights and now divorced not all her but she played a huge part. Just be mindful of the things worth fighting for is all I'm saying. And honestly if that's their dynamic she oversteps and he allows it you won't change it. You'll just drive yourself crazy
If she keeps playing the victim card even when you’re nice….id consider recording all interactions with her going forward just in case. I agree with pia, no invite no attendance!
If they didn't come to the first odds are they won't come again. I get Mil overstepping boundaries but a community for our children is a good thing. Let all those ppl vow before God to support that baby and you all as you raise em. They'll be the ones to have to answer for their lying wicked ways later. MIL definitely over step 😒 and their sons definitely don't put them in their place. But is this something you want to fight your husband over?