Is it wrong?
Okay so my stepsons mom is in his life but isn’t. We’ve had to take her to court and now have full custody of him. But I don’t even consider him my step son he’s just my son. Because his bio mother does nothing for him. She moved 3 hours away and she doesn’t come see him, she doesn’t provide him if anything or really show she’s cares about his well being . The only times she has were the day of courts. And I stopped caring about her being in his life. I want her there but only if she wants to be there. He’s only a year old and he knows me as his mom bc she’s not really around and sometimes I feel guilt bc I made a point to be in his life. Is it wrong for me to feel that way or should I just stop trying.
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If the bio mom wants to be in the childs life and asks to see the child you definitely shouldn’t refuse.
@Angel i don’t and i haven’t the first court date was in February and the last in June she’s only seen him once that whole time. She’s knows she can ask to come see him she just hasn’t.
Absolutely not girl, that little boy is all you have when his mom is being inconsistent. My stepsons consider me their mom as well since I’ve been in their life since they were 2 and 6 months (they are 5 and 6 now) and their mom has been inconsistent also. These babies need someone in their life that is consistent and there for them and that’s you.