@Sophie he and I both keep going back and forth . I think the main thing is that we both really wanted to have another but we’ve had a couple miscarriages after our daughter so we both tread lightly on saying we want another . It’s like we want another but we’ve also tried to be at peace or accept that it may not happen .
Maybe it’s a case then of agreeing how long you’ll try for, and also agreeing on an alternative vision of your family life if it doesn’t work out within that time frame
How does your husband feel about it? Have you sat down and looked at what the pros and cons would be for the whole family?