I'm planning to do 9 months and my partner 3. He doesn't get any paternity leave beyond the statutory 2 weeks so the only way to do it is shared parental leave. Check how the money works as my understanding is with shared, he takes on your pay terms.
I don't think you need to do shared parental leave, as that normally means you give some of your leave and pay or no pay to him. But if he gets paid 6 months I think that's what he should take and then you take 9/12 months as he wouldnt be taking your money or leave entitlement.... We did shared because I gave my husband 4 weeks of my leave with no pay so he could have a total of 6 weeks off with me at the start
We are doing shared leave as I’m self employed My OH is a civil servant and is taking 6 months full pay (on his own wage) plus one months holiday And I’ll go back to work ! Its the only way we can afford to do it
If he gets paid 6 months pat leave, why do you need to do shared parental? Couldn’t you be off longer then? Or have I misunderstood??