Mama’s Mental Health & Homeschooling

Hi I’m a SAHM with a 9 month old and a 5 year old. My daughter is meant to start kindergarten this year and I would like to homeschool, but I’m worried about my mental health and not being able to be the mom that I want to be if I never get a break from her and I’m just with the kids 24/7. My husband works two jobs to support us and that allows me to stay home. I already feel like I’m struggling to manage the house and the kids and I’m worried that taking on more with trying to homeschool. Anyone else?
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Same but different circumstances. Our 4.5 yr old twins start kinder next August. Age 4 has been SOOOOOOOO difficult. I'm a SAHM and work from home, too. I'm already overwhelmed with both of them but hope by next year they will have chilled some. I also have severe ADHD and have been struggling to get going in the morning since both kids still wake in the night. It's exhausting.

Homeschooling can take less time than you think! My daughter completed our kindergarten curriculum right before turning 5, and we only spent an hour or so a day really sitting down doing school. She now reads at a 2nd grade level and she’s just 5 1/2! I have a 1.5 year old too, and we just do school when he’s napping generally. If I need a break, I just have her read while I read for half an hour, or watch a movie while her brother naps so I can decompress. Including kids in the house chores helps too, when cleaning up toys and washing dishes become a game the house gets cleaned while the kids are being entertained at the same time! I know it can feel overwhelming but it’s been so worth it to have the freedom and flexibility that homeschooling provides!

Definitely agree with @Kaile - I found our family’s mental health (both mine and the kids) improved with homeschooling! It’s not a classroom where your kiddos have to sit still and “suffer through” lessons. It’s building a lifelong love of learning, “living life together.” I always have a quiet time built into our homeschool just after lunch, when my older kiddos can play quietly and I either nap with the baby or do quiet time on my own. Little brain breaks are literally built throughout the day, so both my kids and I have times of chatter, times of fun, times of quiet, etc. This blog post may also help: https://midwesthomeschoolers.org/teaching-methods-finland-homeschooling/

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