Just want to rant

It took me almost two years after getting diagnosed with PCOS to have my first son at the age of 20 and it was incredibly hard. I tried everything and anything that I read about or was recommended and finally I was able to convince my first. I am currently trying for my second baby now that my son is 4 and I feel utterly disappointed every time I take a test and it comes out negative. I know that it’s gonna take some time but I am scared that it might just not happen again. Everyone just tells me “well you had your first so there’s nothing to worry about” as if I didn’t have to try so hard just to be able to have my first. I also feel so hurt when people joke “we weren’t even trying.” I feel like everything just reminds me that there’s something wrong with me and it honestly just sucks. I just wanna if anyone else has felt this way

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I feel you on this!! I’m the same still trying to get pregnant after 2 years of trying thinking I’ll never have a baby 😔it’s sad & lonely feelings x

I feel you girl, we tried for 2.5 years and then had tablets was on them for 5/6 months and they were ruthless so I stopped taking them and found I was 2 months gone. This time round the tablets aren’t working and my periods are irregular than ever. Going through the process of being referred to fertility. Like even though you have a child, don’t feel like you can’t reach out to GPs and see if they can refer you to fertility as they can offer medication doctors can’t and see if anything they offer works. My fingers and toes are crossed for you girl🤞🏼 xx

This is totally valid it def takes us PCOS girlies harder and more effort but it’s not impossible!! We will be able to do it!!

When I was struggling through infertility for the first time, one of my friends texted us she had gotten pregnant again (kids are 11 months apart) and told us that it was unplanned. It just felt like rubbing salt in the wound because she knew I was going through infertility, and I'm sure she wasn't even thinking when she said it, but it just really sucked!

@Chloe truly the hardest

@Grace I completely understand :( it’s absolutely the hardest hearing other people say they weren’t even trying

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