@Janea I don’t think they are more than coworkers but I can never really know, we are Nigerians and the coworker is too, from the little I can see on the tiny profile picture, she looks young but he refers to her as though, she is older than him. But either way I think something is going on with him
I agree. Hope you can get to the bottom of this.
You may not believe he has penetrated her, but it's possible he is cheating emotionally. Even flirting with her while they smoke cigarettes together is still cheating and could lead to penetration. Either way, being secretive and lying isn't okay.
The fact you smelt smoke on him and he didn't say 'oh it's because I was with X who was smoking' is very sus.
This is so true, I have just sat and had a conversation and he insists that he doesn’t remember if he smoked or not and says he didn’t smoke around anybody
If he won't even tell the truth about smoking then I'd worry he's lying about other things too
Considering my husband remembers his last cigarette was with my now deceased grandfather and that man loses his keys regularly, I'd say your man is full of shit! He's lying to you and I wouldn't put up with it personally. He remembers smoking, especially if he was supposed to have quit smoking🙄😒
And you believed that?
I believe he’s cheating
@Janea Nah tbh I don’t believe hardly anything he says these days and it has all come from little white lies like this. But the reason I don’t believe he is cheating (at least not with that particular girl) is because I have read the whole chat and tbh, it sounds more like she’s using him for cigarettes and would only message him when she was in the office same time as him and would ask him for fags. I’m more worried about how easily he can lie to me and make me feel like I’m going crazy as I could smell it on him.
That’s weird they are probably more than coworkers . He can buy his own why is he offering to buy her some??