I totally understand feeling judged when you're out in public. I'm pretty sure I'm overthinking it, but I also come from a a super religious family and live in Utah of all places. I got pregnant outside of marriage which is already against my family's religion, and then I left my ex at about 30 weeks pregnant due to abuse so now I'm a young single mom on top of that. I tend to be very paranoid, but I've definitely been very uncomfortable going out into public or even being around my extended family.
Sounds like it's in your head, some level of guilt weighs on you. A baby belly does get attention, but they don't know you or your story🤷 It's best to not care what other people think anyway. You can't change it or control it, so let it go and try to enjoy being pregnant. I hope your husband will be okay ❤️