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I would not have been polite I’ll just say that lol. Get mad at me and leave I’ll be at the door waving bye bye. 👋
@Tashina I’m stressing out !! Because I really didn’t mean to be rude and his family was saying how disrespectful I was and that I was just raised differently from them
They would be mad at me and I would be like oh well. It takes so long to put a baby to sleep I'll be damned if someone wakes mine up. They have to respect that
@Ruby girl you should hear the way i used to talk to my exes family
@Zakia I said the same in my head ain't no way
Once my baby goes down that’s it he mad Boundaries need to be set Not your fault they don’t see the baby during the day And your bf should be standing beside u not acting like a child
Lmao that’s so ridiculous 😭 how tf u gonna get mad cause I said I just out the baby to sleep , ur bf childish as hell and so is his family. I’d say f yall fr
@Zakia you would probably say I’m stu pid lol bc maybe a month ago he told he he “preferred his mom “ over me and I have a 5 month old and I’m pregnant with his second baby idk whyyyy im still here
Ruby, sounds like you need to set the bf and his family straight...a few things to remember-that's your child and you're the queen of your castle...if someone comes into your home and doesn't like your rules/boundaries/whatever...they can leave, simple and plain...also always remember, how you start is how you finish in reference to you bf...so if he isn't able/willing to put his gf first now, it'll be hard to change that behavior in the future (marriage, if that's even on the table). I'm mad that the family even had the audacity to be mad at you and make little comments about you being rude...stand your ground now because if you don't the behavior will continue and get worse..set some clear boundaries amd don't back down
@Brittani tha I you soooo much really I’m not the type to come on here and cry but I just feel sooo alone
@Brittani honestly I feel like I’m going crazy
"you wake 'em, you take 'em!" And they can deal with an overtired baby. Sounds like his family needs a good lesson in respecting boundaries. You're a good mama who knows what's best for her son.
If you are at your house, just kick them out. If you are at their house, just leave.
Its always been a case of they're your baby, therefore its your rules. You need to put those boundaries in now or you're gonna have hell for 18 plus years to come Mama. The fact your SO is so far up his Mamas ass that he's insulting you rather than defending you speaks volumes, so you need to advocate for yourself and your babies so they don't walk all over you and also so they don't cause harm to your sweet babas. Message me if you want someone to vent to!
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@Jenna I was in my house and she’s made it clear saying “it’s my sons house because he pays the rent”
@Samantha thank youuu 🥹
Ohh comments like that really burn me up 😡. So what if he pays the rent! You contribute to your home in many other ways that are equal to, if not more, than whatever the rent is. His mom needs to take a seat.
@Ruby we all have to have an outlet and if this is it, so be it! You got this mama, set your boundaries and continue to do what you feel is best for you and baby! DO NOT let his family or him for that matter drive you crazy...you have enough to deal with caring for the baby. How they feel about your boundaries is NOT your concern or business...peace is priceless!!! Never forget that!! You can always message me as well, best of luck❤️
@Ruby girl kick him to the curb and with mommas boy ass
You are 1000% in the right. You are the mother and have every right to tell them they'd be welcome during the day but they are not allowed to see him past a certain hour. Set boundaries and stick to them
It’s your child once you put the baby down that’s it Your bf can deal