Hi ladies

I have PCOS, anovulation and my left ovary is fine but the fallopian tube is knackered and it's the opposite way round on my right side as the ovary is knackered but it's fallopian tube is fine. I have been trying to get my fiancé to come with me to the doctors so that we can get help with becoming parents before I hit the menopause (I'm 41 and my fiancé is 40). I have told my fiancé that we will need help with becoming parents because of my medical conditions, but he doesn't think that we do. I have read on the NHS website that it's a good idea for couples who are trying for a baby to have a complete health check up first, but he keeps refusing. I was wondering if any of u lovely ladies have had a similar problem with your oh