Vent Time!! Am I overreacting or was he wrong?

So basically I had just got out the shower like any other day I leave my Daughter with her dad to watch for maybe 15 mins TOP so I can shower and I have my alone time because that’s the only time I get it, even though it’s not for long because he thinks just because she’s breastfed he can’t do anything mind you that’s not the only the she wants all the time, SHES JUST A BABY. Okay anyway I’m venting because she usually cries when I enter the room bc she always sitting with nothing while he plays the GAME, so I’m just trying to calm her while trying to get dry the water off my body, she’s crying and he’s still playing the game, so I say “helloo, is she not crying?”, and he picks her up while still managing to play the game so at this point I’m trying to hurry because I can obviously tell he’s not giving her his full attention, so he sits her down again and stands up. At this point I’m trying to hurry and put on my clothes, and I say “why did you put her down if she’s still crying I’m almost done” and he SAYS “This play is IMPORTANT RIGHT NOW” umm EXCUSE THE HELL OUT OF ME, and I say “so you’re saying she not wth” and he’s says “she’s is but you know” and continues playing. Now this man has gave me many red flags into leaving his ass but this is by far THE worst, there’s a lot of things I’ll let pass but neglecting my daughter or not putting her first is definitely #1. What do you guys think? Am I I overreacting or was he wrong?
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You are not overreacting. Major red flag. I would get out of that relationship asap, you will never be able to leave the baby with him as he can’t be trusted and you can’t put your baby at risk. Sorry you are not getting the support you need, sounds like you are a great mum 🩷

@Steph Thank youu💗

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