Low key drama

No u not wrong girl , don't waste ur time on someone willing to walk away from u no matter how hard ahit gets someone who loves u will stick beside u

@QUEEN Thanks because I feel so bad 😩

Girl , basically same with me and my bd. We share 8 month old twin girls together and we live together but I’m currently visiting family in another state and I brought the girls with me . My bd works 2 jobs to support us so I understand when he’s tired but he doesn’t text , I have to call him to see if he wants to talk to the girls . He never asks about me and there’s always an excuse for late , slow replies , sometimes he doesn’t call at all , I’m not talking to anyone , but I have a feeling he is . I figure since we’re clearly not a priority and he’s not talking to me throughout the day he must be using that energy on someone else . Idk what to do anymore I feel like it’s very one sided .

@Jezelle I'm sorry love💞 Mines doesn't call me at all and ignores my calls but 2 days later ask if we're good. He's definitely talking to someone because his job doesn't restrict him from using his phone. No matter how tired you are if you actually loved someone and prioritized them you would call or at least make some effort. I stopped reaching out and he blames me now saying I don't call or respond to him. Like sir it didn't happen overnight. I only talked to my ex today and I feel so guilty I'm going to stop but I don't talk to anyone else😩 He claims he's tried everything but I see nothing at all but him spewing broken promises.

@Jezelle Also you never know he might really be tired tell you miss talking to him and see if it changes anything guys are weird sometimes. Mines was definitely talking to someone else in the past and probably still is not only that he put his family above me as well so yeah I'm over it especially because it's 1 going on 2 years of talking and no effort

Girl , I’m so sorry . This is so messed up . Idk about you but we planned our family , he said he wanted a family , so we made the sacrifices stood by him when we got evicted a month after girls were born , lived with his mom for 4 months , moved again and lived with friends and then finally got our place . There’s hardly any intimacy, he’s secretive about his phone , pretty much does whatever it is he wants to do and without repercussions or consequences because how dare I ask him questions or create boundaries , ask for reassurance , we haven’t had one night alone without the babies , I had to beg him to take us to the park so we could finally spend quality time as a family , he fought with me on Mother’s Day , he’ll get upset with me if I don’t answer my phone but I swear girl I’m the only one fostering the relationship he has with our girls . He barely does bare minimum and wants credit . I can’t be upset or confront him about any of it because he’ll say I’m starting drama

I hope it works out for you in the end . I don’t condone cheating or looking elsewhere for validation when still in relationships . But I don’t think you’re wrong , at some point when are you gonna get what you deserve ? We both deserve the world and then some and these men take us for granted , take advantage and walk all over us when we created and while we raise our babies basically on our own. A man should provide so much more than money just like a relationship can’t survive on just love . You need so much more . I feel tricked because he isn’t the person I met , it’s nothing but broken promises and broken hearts .

@Jezelle I can't be the judge of that but from my experiences it sounds like something's up and personally if y'all are together I would wait till he's sleep and search his phone lol Also he might just be a little bit of a narcissist mine is but yeah I was the only one showing effort in the beginning as well until I stopped know that's a problem. I tried to do everything and he always said i didn't have to and once I stopped it was a problem too.

@Jezelle I appreciate that and hope the same for you💞 Your right that's why I feel so bad but he definitely broke up with months ago and never said anything about it just saying he wants to be with me and loves me but he just doesn't want me to take the boys because his alcoholic family won't get to see them. Currently saving to move because I'm tired he gives me nothing emotional and goes days without talking to me or the boys. Definitely more than money because that's what he thinks show that he cares because he works he thinks that's all. Mike literally told me he trapped me then he switched up😡 You never know what the future holds but I'm fed up