Is anybody else struggling to conceieve there second?

We’ve been trying for around 18months, it’s just not happening for us. Everyone around me seems to be getting pregnant and I can’t help but be so jealous and upset. Why is it so difficult? I’ve stopped taking opks and all that stuff as I was driving myself insane! I don’t even know what the point of this is I guess I’m just ranting

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I’ve had this, my partners cousin was going on and on about when are we having a baby, I was thinking you have no idea. X

You're not alone 🩷 we are the same here! Been trying for around 2 years now, like you I have stopped testing as it drives me mad, I've started acupuncture and doing more stuff to help me stay relaxed (yoga, massages, facials etc) just plodding along with it all now hoping one day soon we have our BFP 🤞 sending lots of baby dust to you xx

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Chemical pregnancy or too early ?

I did a test last night and straight away the positive line came up. When I tested again this morning it’s negative. My period isn’t due until Tuesday but feeling really crap and pregnant for the last week

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Ovulation

If I had sex yesterday (Saturday) n my ovulation date is on Tuesday is it possible I could get pregnant?

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Could this be like my ovulation is about to start from this ovulation test

I had my period on the 15 of march and my cycle is 23 days from the picture will be that I’m ovulating

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I'm so not meant to be a mother.

My kids won't listen to me get into stuff when they know they aren't supposed to. Telling me no all the time. Only listen to their dad. Laughs when I correct them. I spend most of my time yelling at them because they don't want to listen to me at all. My husband said that I shouldn't have kids. And I am believing him on it. I was never meant to be a mother now. I won't hurt my kids I just want to disappear and make everyone else's lives better without me.

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One and done… or not?

32ftm. I’m starting to feel so much pressure to have another baby soon as I wean from breastfeeding so they can be close in age and be friends, but I don’t feel ready for pregnancy and newborn trenches again 😭 my husband and I are all we’ve got. Having just one baby without a village has been really tough. Am I being unrealistic wanting another one soon?

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EllaOne

I had a positive ovulation test yesterday and had unprotected sex the night before. I took the EllaOne pill last night. Has anyone had this before? Was it effective if you’d already seen the positive ovulation?

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