My partners boy has meltdowns, usually due to sensory overloads but it’s hard to tell sometimes. He usually screams for 45 mins whether he’s hungry or not, thirsty or not, getting attention to calm him down or not. Always 45 minutes. He screams so much he often causes a nosebleed. I completely understand how you’re feeling😫 We don’t call them tantrums, we call them meltdowns☹️
Is he hungry or needing a nap? That's always the first question I ask myself when my 2 year old falls apart.