@Rhiannon Thankyou, it's so hard to know what to do before it happens isn't it! Currently feel like whichever decision I make will be the wrong one
It'll feel like that until you have the baby. I genuinely loved the gap that I'm considering another so my youngest has a close sibling! Don't get me wrong, it's not a walk in the park, but I personally think it's a nice age gap. Biggest downside for me is nursery price x 2!
My eldest two had a similar age gap, I fell pregnant at 6 months. I was also worried back then, for no reason. You'll make it work. I found they fell into a routine together easily! and are still so close now at 11 & 12! It is difficult to begin with juggling when you're on your own, but I promise you will adjust quickly, I don't regret it. You'll hear a lot of horror stories as people love them. But honestly, I loved it and I now have a 10 year gap between middle and youngest and find this is harder 😂