Husband committed adultery does the military even care?
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Adultery is illegal for them you can def get him in trouble
Woah, I'm sorry to hear. No matter what branch, it is considered illegal. They will either dock his pay and position or possibly dishonorable discharge him.
Just remember they will look out for HIM not YOU!!!!! Not tryna scare you but you can message me if you like and I can go more in depth
This is all off the book stuff they can do fyi yea illegal but if he gets mad he can do things to affect you
Did he use you for your US status? This sounds very strange
@Priscilla is right, they will do anything at all to protect them before us. I would definitely talk to an attorney with any questions you might have, I’m not sure how it works having two wives..
@Stephanie I think about that a lot…
@Mckayla yeah I’m thinking about asking the mediator at our first conference…
Technically his other 3 kids may be able to still get on his deers //his insurance if he proves they’re his legally. Sounds like that’s why he wants to divorce you to marry her to bring them over. Sadly, this matter of his cheating on you should be dealt with outside of the military because docking his pay is gna hurt you and your kids. Just food for thought. I am so sorry to hear this and it infuriates me. You deserve so much better and so does you babies 🥹🙏
@Desireè I have been thinking the same thing… I think I will keep the military out of it at least for my son’s sake .
Reach out to a base legal office. They can consult you on what's better for you
I don’t know if I’d tell command because if he got kicked out or demoted it would affect pay and maybe Tricare so for your son, and any child support or help you would get I’d think it be better not to. I am also a little confused by the post. So he’s in the us with you but other wife and kids are not? Were they legally married?
Send his ass to the brig
You can technically tell his command if you have solid proof. But will affect his pay which can affect you