I don’t wanna do it anymore

I’m sick of it. Everyone’s getting pregnant. I feel like my life is on hold. I’m nearly 35. I just want to quit. I’m blessed I have a son but I desperately want him to have a siblings but it’s breaking me every month negative test after negative test. I’m using opk’s, all the vitamins, SMEP method, trying to stay healthy… I’m just over it.
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Read the book ‘It starts with the egg’ - Rebecca Fett. I hope it helps. TTC is an emotional roller coaster. Maybe take a break, but don’t give up. Or give up on ovulation testing, etc and while not being careful, try not to think about it and put the pressure on it. Sending love!

I can related… only I don’t have any kids, I’m 35, 36 next month… I told myself for your birthday you will celebrate with a kid, now impossible… all around me they just get pregnant, and I’m take vitamin, loose weight, fight with the ivf clinic, but still nothing! It’s really hard time! Especially when your period is coming

Also TTC my second, everyone around me is getting pregnant in the first few months of trying and it’s so tough! I know its difficult but what helps me is to focus on the present and try not to compare our situation with others (easier said than done)- on days I feel really bad I try and do something nice with my first born and focus on enjoying her as much as possible . We are also going on holiday next month so I’ll have a break from tracking which I also think is important. I really hope it works out for you soon- solidarity over her ❤️

I’m in the exact same position!

Pray for hope and guidance. I'm 35 and in the same boat but I want at least 1 baby. I'm staying hopefully someday it will be my month and I will be a mom someday.

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