Feel like a failure of a mum

You’re doing amazing mama, you know what’s best for baby boy and you should cut out all the outside noise. No one knows your child better than you and there is no right way to parent just keep showing up and doing the best you can do x

some kids are just skinny 🤷‍♀️ eat like monsters but skinny mini

My LO has never had an ounce of fat on him, some babies are naturally leaner than others.. as long as your son is following his percentile line I wouldn't worry at all x

U r doing amazing mama!! Even i used to get sad but my doctor said there nothing special about an obese child! Infact they have higher chances of getting obese ones they grow up

Thank you all so much for all your kind words, I feel much reassured now after reading your comments, I guess your all right, I can only try my best and thankfully health visitor has said he’s growing exactly how he should be. Your all so wonderful❤️ @Mariyam @Charni @luu🤎 @Kishma

@Mariyam that’s a very insensitive message to women who have babies that are slightly bigger than others you need to be careful of what you write as obese in not the best word to put out there just in general and when you associate it with special that makes it that much worse @Saamia girl you are doing your best. I can’t even put 3 fresh meals and doing your that. That alone is such an achievement girl. As long as your baby is happy and cheerful and fine within himself who gives two hoots about some desi aunties honestly. Don’t you worry girl you are a great mum x

@Faria i really didn't mean it like that! And i was quoting my doctor. I am also in the same boat. Random People keep suggesting me to formula feed my baby so that she becomes chubby! I am happy for the people who have healthy babies. But people also need not to point out skinny babies and make mums feel like a failure.

@Mariyam I agree with this, I have never once stopped any mum and said to that “oh he/she is quite skinny for their age” so I have no idea how other people are so confident in saying that to me or others! Like can’t they see that they are basically saying in other words that are we not feeding our child properly! X

@Mariyam I don’t think you quite understand the context. You are complaining about something that is mentioned by saamia on this post however what you said is not ok and that’s all I’m going to say. I see a post each day about skinny babies and babies that are relatively bigger and a baby is a baby some are skinny and some are chubby. A doctor can quote what they want this comment was mentioned on here by yourself. It sounds a bit passive. Anyways good luck

Ignore them. Don't let their words get to you. You know your doing your best. So be proud of yourself 💪♥️

@Sadia thank you so much my love, your kind words reassure me a lot ❤️

Haha my toddler is the same even though he’s got the biggest appetite in the world as he burns it all off playing all day. You’re doing amazing. Skinny doesn’t mean anything bad. It means their metabolism is working well especially if they are very high energy. Some kids are just born lean and wiry by nature.

@prajna awe bless you, your extremely kind , thank you for your reassurance hun❤️