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I went through a break up last year and was abandoned with my baby and waited for months for that man to return just for it to never happen He didn’t even try to stick around to do a dna test with me he didn’t check on me before or after the birth didn’t even ask how my baby was It’s like he just disappeared off the face of the earth and yesterday I managed to find his mothers Facebook I’ve never met his mom didn’t even know her name but what gave it away was her last name and some old pictures she had of him And now I’m stuck thinking what I should do The baby isn’t his but I’m still hurt and it sounds so stupid but I feel like if he just up and left me with a kid I wonder what he’s done before me or while he was with me Before anyone ask how I didn’t know if the baby was his I was going off what my obgyn was telling me during the first two weeks of my pregnancy so I was thinking he was the dad whole time it was my ex before him I didn’t even think about abortion since I have pcos and was scared I’d never have another shot at being a mom

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I'm sorry you're feeling how you're feeling, that sense of abandonment is REAL 😔 did you say that the baby is not his?

@Meaghan did I say it to him? I didn’t even get the chance to do that he left when I was 20 weeks pregnant I was making plans to get it done but no it’s not his He left not knowing and it sucks that he was too ready to leave even if it was his baby

Im.sorry you going through that Ive been there my son was not my ex and then his bio dad dont do nothing he trapped me got me pregnant purposly got a dna test although he knew my son was his since the day I said I was pregnant and does nothing for him.since I moved got in a happy relationship and now engaged its been 3 yrs since he has seen my son but idc I moved forward and my fiance is all that my son knows and we are happy 😊 wheeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning you will.see the sunshine at the end of the tunnel be patient ❤️

@Ashley I’m sorry that happened to you I’m glad you was able to move on

Yea smh that's heartbreaking that he left without even giving you a chance or the baby smh I'm sorry girl

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