Interracial relationship: I’m black, his white

Respectfully

@Melanie girl not EVEN respectfully 😭😭😭😭😭 throw the whole man away

@Caitlyn 😂😂 well there was something that made her be with him so maybe he's not complete garbage but definitely sounds like a hot bag of trash

Jeez, what a jerk 🙄. How can you stand to be with him when he's this dumb?

Cornrows make your son look naughty? What a ignorant statement from anyone yet alone his own father. I most definitely wouldn't be with someone who is degrading to me but especially my own child. Imagine how your son would feel him making those remarks as he continues to grow and get older and how insecure it may make your son feel.

Did he make those sorts of comments before you had a child together? Hoping you didn’t just ignore them then if so…

@Carly Definitely not, this all started after we started to live together which was 2 years into our relationship. Wish he showed his true colours sooner

@R 🪬 exactly that, at the start I let it slide but he’s getting too comfortable saying things and gets defensive and walks off when I tell him it’s not right and try to educate him. He won’t be here for long that’s a fact

@Melanie love this

@Chris this!

girl…… what the city girls say??? get that head get that bread….

I don’t know what you’re in but I wouldn’t call it a relationship 🤮

Toss him to the curb. I’m not black so I could be very much wrong but I would think that could set your child up for serious disadvantages. For example, the “cornrows make him look naughty” might in turn cause your son to act out so he can impress or fit in with what his dad is saying about him. Almost causing him to be a naughty child when naturally he might not be. I have a white aunt that does this type of stuff to her half Arabic children and I couldn’t take it anymore so I cut her completely off, especially after I got pregnant with my half Pakistani baby. No way in hell do I want my perfectly made daughter exposed to that dangerous and disgusting rhetoric

I'm in an "interracial" marriage ( I hate the terms, but that's to summarise things. This type of comments wouldn't even come into his mind. Is your boyfriend family the same? I made sure when we met that this wouldn't be an issue either with him or his family. Especially he never dated a black woman before me, I kept asking him questions, check his reaction everytime something remotely racist came up on a movie or in the news. My ex was arabic and was making racist jokes even with his black friend, I knew I couldn't raise a child with him. All this to say you might have missed some red flags. Now you can address it with him, but I usually don't have the energy to educate people. His child would resent him later in life if he continues. Good luck but I unfortunately can't see a good outcome here for the relationship