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I can't seem to get excited anymore about becoming a mum, let alone a family. I can't even afford my rent, and I feel like my partner will end up leaving me because I have to depend on him so much. I know I'm not going to be good enough for this baby, and I've got no one else to talk to because I always end up just being a burden. My partner is so tired and over worked and I don't seem to be any help to him, I just seem to make things more difficult for him and I know he's going to leave me soon, this is not what he signed up for. I was supposed to have a backpay from Universal Credit, and my statement is £0. I always want to think every day will get better, but it seems to gradually get worse. I'm sorry for the rant, but I have nowhere to turn, and I've never felt so alone and broken.
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Don’t worry mama.. you are growing a whole human, and it’s okay to feel a lil sad here and there. A good man will know that growing a baby isn’t easy. If you can’t bring in money at the time, you can bring in other things. Peace, love, care, clean home, food after a hectic day, a listening ear, etc. You can also try talking to your partner to let him know it may be a difficult time but it will pass, and acknowledge him for the work he does. Don’t forget you are bringing in a whole human too. Someone who will love you unconditionally. Hang in there and it will soon be fine. I wish you a safe delivery ❤️

@Mary-Ann thank you!

don’t worry focus on Naming your baby and being a good mom ! you can work And be yourself completely find when you are pregnant

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