MIL

So my MIL was up yesterday after months of previously her not coming up… My daughter turned around and went “who’s that” I did correct her and say gran because she doesn’t see her as such or she would have said. Whenever my MIL was saying gran or granny to her my daughter was just giving her a blank look to be fair it’s her own fault, my daughter basically avoided her the whole time she was up. When my MIL was leaving she kissed my daughter on the lips I’m furious!🤬 even my family don’t they get her to kiss them on the cheek if she wants to they don’t force it which i respect she is allowed to make her own choices even a cuddle before she leaves. Should I say something or leave it until whenever she decides to come up again? I have told my partner I wasn’t happy about it, but if I say something to his mum she will play the victim and I just can’t be bothered with that.

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I would say something because if you have told other family members and they have respected your choice, then your MIL should as well.

@Kyra I’ve told her a few times before when my little girl was younger but she’s always ignored it but it always ended up with crocodile tears and im the bad one🤷🏼‍♀️ to be honest she ignores all boundaries set by me and my partner and his brother and his partner

She sounds like she gaslights everybody, and that's how she gets her way. I wish I could be more help

@Kyra I agree, I think I’ll have to just say something to her and hope she takes it like the adult she is suppose to be and starts respecting our boundaries if not then she just won’t see her 🤷🏼‍♀️ not that she see’s her much anyways haha

Yeah, from what you have posted, you are an amazing mama and keep doing what you are doing for your child!

She can have all the crocodile tears she likes, it needs to be nipped in the butt. That’s not okay for anyone to do!!!

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