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Can I have more than 1 birth partner at the conquest? Thanks

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Hi when i had my baby there I was only allowed one person

Yes, I had my baby last August and I had my mum and my boyfriend there the whole time x

I had my daughter in April this year at the conquest hastings.
I had 2 birthing partners, my main birthing partner (my husband) was allowed to stay with me 24/7 and had a wrist band that allowed him access as much. Then my best friend had a wrist band to say she was a birthing partner but was only allowed in during the birth and at visiting hours x

That's super helpful thank you :)

One person in the ward, two for birthing x
I had my mum and partner in the birth, just my partner in ward

Thanks, is your partner allowed to stay over night on the ward? I had a c-section with my first 7 years ago and was on a ward with 4 other people... partner had to leave. Just wondering if this is still the same? Are you moved to the ward straight after a vaginal birth? Thanks

@Lottie yeah he stayed with me until we were discharged the next day, rest for a bit they offer you to shower of you feel with some food and drink and then move back to the ward x

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I just wanted to share my experience with being induced as I wasn’t sure what to expect and thought it may help others.

I opted for the foley balloon which was inserted at 8am Saturday morning, I had to stay in hospital due to hypertension and protein urine however usually you can just go home once this has been done. The insertion of the balloon was not painful, was slightly uncomfortable as there was slight pressure. I actually found having the cervix checked prior to be worse (again not painful at this point just uncomfortable) The balloon had little effect and after having it removed I was still only 1cm. Removal also was pain free and hardly even noticeable.

I then had my first dose of the gel and definitely noticed a difference, I started experiencing period like cramps almost immediately however they were light and manageable. After 6 hours I had another cervix check and although my cervix was soft it was still only 1cm and was only open at the front. I had another dose of the gel and felt an increase in pressure and more intense cramping where I now required pain relief (codeine). After another 6 hours I had another cervix check and I had now dilated to 2-3cm however was still quite difficult to get all the way through so a third gel was recommended which I agreed to.

Almost immediately I noticed the difference and was in considerable pain, I had paracetamol and codeine however the contractions had now become intense and a lot closer together (around 3 minutes apart). After a couple of hours I had my last cervix check and was 4cm and taken down to the Labour ward to have my waters broken and an epidural.

I had been in my room for approx 20minutes when my waters broke by themselves and I was now 10cm and actively pushing…. There was no time for the epidural and my beautiful girl arrived into the world within 2 minutes of pushing.

All in all I would say the cramps/contractions were manageable up until the third gel where it became pretty unbearable however it was for a very short time a gas and air helped take the edge off. The worst part about any of it was actually the later cervix checks where after stimulating the cervix my contractions were at their most painful.

If I had to be induced again I would skip the balloon and opt for the gels immediately as thy had a quicker effect and I would have been out a lot sooner if I had done this to begin with.

One more thing, I’ve never believed when people say “you forget the pain once they’re here” but I can honestly say this is true. It’s been 4 days and I would do it all again in a heartbeat.

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