As someone who has a fourth month old and is now a single parent. He did not want a second baby but we talked about it and he agreed to it but now looking back on it he was never happy to began with. So my advice is choose your battle wisely. Sometimes I wish I left it alone but at the same I have an amazing baby girl. You will never regret the babies you have but you will always regret the babies you didn’t have
Give more time to both of you, he is tired. Baby is big commitment, both side should be responsible
He says that our daughter is a lot to deal with right now and adding a baby in to this situation is a bad idea. Yeah we get frustrated but she’s a toddler so I feel like that’s normal?
My hubs is the same, unfortunately! I’m hoping I can convince him when our current child is 4-5 and more independent, but only time will tell. We had a super hard birth and I think he’s more scarred by it than he’d like to admit, while I want another chance to have things go more ‘normally’ haha!
I absolutely feel this! I want 1-2 more (we’re currently pregnant with our second), but my husband is 100% set on being done. I struggle with it so much