Christmas Presents

Okay guys, need your advice. I’ve been married to my husband for a year. Last his mother got me a shirt of Shien. 4 sizes too big after she asked for what size I wore because she didn’t think it would fit :). She bought him like a flannel or something. I wouldn’t be mad about the money part, except she then sends us pictures of all the new jewelry she bought herself. Constantly saying how it’s soooo expensive. Like okay? So you have money yet you only spend it on yourself? It’s not necessarily that money is a big deal, but my parents spent just as much on me and they did him the past couple years, and we both got thoughtful gifts. I feel like his mom just makes no effort. Also, I got her a personalized sweat shirt last year, that said grandma with her grandkids names on it. I thought that was kind of thoughtful ? This year, should I also get her a shirt off Shien 4 sizes too big? Or just like a generic cup off Amazon that says grandma or something.