Marry a rich man
Your man has to essentially make enough to cover your expenses. That said, a lot of us are fairly frugal and have cut our lifestyles back from when we had two incomes pre-kids. Some of us work part time as well.
My fiance and I live at my parents house lol that’s how I’m able to be a SAHM
My husband makes enough from his business so I can stay home. But I like to create content and I’m slowly building a brand so I can start making money and still stay with my daughter at home.
Honestly lucked out having a husband that makes enough to allow me to be a SAHM.
It's not by choice I'd prefer to go to work. If I put both my babies into daycare it would be more than my rent is and we don't qualify for assistance.