I guess I’m worried I will not have any? And any excitement I’ll feel will be taken away. But thank you so much’!!
You already have a 13 year old Baby . You are a pro mama, and honestly those people are living their life and they make their daily choices, so whether they give you their support or not it should not shift your feeling towards having this tiny peanut. If they don't support you- do you really want them in your life like that? sounds harsh but- if they died tomorrow and you didn't have that baby because you were scared about their non-support would you be mad at yourself for not having that baby in your life? (Just giving you a different look at this because I been in those shoes and made bad choices)
Congrats!! Feel excited even without the support. I have a 14 year old and this is my second and I’m no contact with my family and it’s still a happy exciting event. It sucks to not be able to share it without their negative energy but it’s your joy so you can feel as joyous as you want despite them.
I have an 11 year old and then a 1 1/2 year old it's hard and yes people respond differently when they know the difference in age but you've got this you'll smash it sometimes it's not all about family x
So what are you asking here? If you asking for support you fully have my support in having that baby... you will never regret having it :) good luck this is exciting times!