Going back to work

I am going back to work in December, then my husband will be on leave until the middle of January. But then I'll be working from home all week and my husband's 2 days a week. We don't have family around and I feel so stressed about it. I don't know how we will manage looking after our girl and working. I am doing a PhD and I have until March to submit so I need to actually focus and work. I am also breastfeeding and do not want to stop as I will be home. I feel so anxious just thinking about it. And then I have to find a job whilst finishing my thesis, and we can't afford for me to stay at home. Also my PhD is on CSAM prevention and I am scared about my mental health now that I have a baby everything will feel so personal... We're also planning on moving out of the country within the next year. It all feels so scary and unmanageable... Anyone else in the same boat? When I talk to friends and family they all tell me we still have time to figure it out... Not helpful really. Just got a lot on my mind
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I know it's hard, bit try not to overtuink it and stress about it. Just follow your gut and trust the process ❤️ I work from home, do my husbands papers with 4 kids, youngest is June baby. It is hard, but once you find the rythm it gets better also if your Hubby is helpful and can coom dinner etc, it will be fine. If you can work around your baby's naps than it will be fantastic 🙂 I mostly do work staff at day when baby naps or in the evening when all went to bed. Or maybe you can take nanny if that pays of 🙂 good luck and you got this ❤️

I'm going back to work in November and will be wfh 2 days a week and in London 1 day a week until Christmas, then in London 2 days/home 2 days from January while my husband takes leave. I have no idea how it's going to work with breastfeeding but I'm really determined to get to six months feeding and pumping. I'm just trying to take it as it comes but it's a lot to juggle!

It's super daunting but try not to overthink everything. Us women have a way of adapting quicker than humanly possible lol. I've actually been doing kit days once a week since the beginning of September and had the biggest meltdown because ultimately it wasn't my decision to return to work so early and I felt like my choices in pregnancy and PP had been completely swiped away from me. My mat leave officially ends this month and I'll be back to normal hours. I was so stressed about leaving baby (my shifts are 12 hours) I had no idea how I was going to manage breastfeeding and work. No idea how I would manage 4 kids, being up all night every night whilst working and running the home. But we find ways and you will be absolutely fine xx

After becoming a mom, you get extra strong 💪 you will do everything for your baby n for yourself. When I had my first 3 years ago,I worked nights 5 days. Slept for almost 3 hours a day. But, when you know you have to do it, then you can do it no matter what!

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